I have come to understand that the only thing you can carry with you from
this realm of existence to the next is the quality of the relationships you
have developed and nurtured in this one. This is the focus of my life and the
lens through which I see my world.
I know, I promised to help develop a positive life focus. Well, building
loving, supportive relationships is a very positive thing in my book; keeping
this in mind at all times will help you stay focused. The purpose here is to
build that new and beautiful life we all want; this is one of the ways we go
about it.
We all want to feel good; that is our prime motivation. Just as all things
are made of a single substance (energy), all actions are motivated by a single
desire, (the desire to feel good). Sorry folks, but if you look deep enough
inside, and be honest with yourself, you will find that it is true. It is not a
bad thing; it just is what it is. Knowing this, is the key to building those
loving, supportive relationships. It is also the key to having a lot fewer bad
days yourself.